Imagine if you lived in a world in which there was nothing to annoy you. It is possible. When? When you let go of the constant need to judge, you will see that the annoyances drop quickly away. Now don't get me wrong, your ability to make judgments can serve you well. But it can also cause a lot of needless trouble, anxiety, and pain.
Today, in this moment, I challenge you to stop making judgments about the things that don’t matter. Free yourself to focus on the things that do.
It may take some effort, but you can replace judgment with understanding. If you seek to understand others, you will find that you will be far better understood.
Certainly there will be times when a judgment is necessary and appropriate. You will find that in these times, your judgment will be much more powerful and effective because you haven’t wasted it on things that don’t matter.
Choose today to use your judgment wisely, if at all. Choosing to be understanding will serve you so much better.
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